Friday, September 28, 2012
I Am Looking
Sometimes i want to believe Turd is playing hide and seek with me. I pretend (just like my mom) that she is a really good hider, and thats why we are sitting in the dark at 2:21 A.M. every night, trying to figure out where she went. After all, when I look around the room, her little dress is still hanging on the door, and her harley jacket is hanging beside mine. Her toys are in our box, and her little bowl is full of food, but i can't find her. I looked in the bed, under Dad's pillow, on our chair, and even out in Alcatraz. I waited last night by the fence for her, so she would run around and play with me, (cos Sammer won't)..but she didn't come. Mom still can't use her words to tell me where she went, and if she trys she just cries and cries. (Some people aren't very patient with Mom either so she hides and cries) Someone told Mom blogging is the best therapy for pain ...so we are trying. Stella Rose and Momma
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Stella
ReplyDeleteEverypuggy grieves at his or her own rate and in his or her own way. It takes time - especially when the loss is so unexpected. Trudie was soooooo young! I am here to help you get through this. I know in the end your family will move on and heal.
Love Noodles
PeeEss, you can email me anytime you just want to "talk."
You just move at your own pace. And if other don't understand that is theiir hang up. Know we are here for you and understnd. Prayers fo ryou and yoru family.
ReplyDeleteBlessings,
Goose
Oh Stella - I know how you feel! I lost my sister, Phoebe, in January of 2010. She was a pekingese mix and she was 14. I loved her very much and I still miss her. Sometimes mom, dad and I still talk about her.
ReplyDeleteEven though Trudie was only with you for a short time ... you will never forget her! And she will be waiting for you at the rainbow bridge ... a long, long time from now!
Be strong ... you and your mama can help each other get through this.
Love Zoe (Peyton, Webster, Liberty & Whitney, too!)
Be strong friends and do reach out and don't be alone as we are all here for you. We wish you well and we think of you often. Take Care and we will see you when you feel able.
ReplyDeleteBig Hugs and much love Molly.
Dear Stella Rose and Momma,
ReplyDeleteWe hope you can feel the love coming your way and take comfort in fact that you gave your Turdie the best year of her short life here on earth.
pughugs,
Bailey, Hazel, Greta and mom
Awwww reading this brings tears to my eyes. I am so sorry for your loss and can't even begin to imagine the pain you are going through.
ReplyDeleteSusan (Sheldon, Winnie and Jakey)
Awwww reading this brings tears to my eyes. I am so sorry for your loss and can't even begin to imagine the pain you are going through.
ReplyDeleteSusan (Sheldon, Winnie and Jakey)
You will get used to it in time, but there's nothing wrong with taking time to get there! Everyone walks the road in their own pace, and it just can't be rushed!
ReplyDeleteSending you BIG, big husky hugs!
ReplyDeleteLuv,
Dave
Many hugs for you all... tell momma to be patient and take her time through this.
ReplyDeleteShelle, Milo, Dixie and Newby,
http://simpaticodreams.blogspot.com/
Sophie and Sadie ( beautiful,loving,and precious torti kittes) from Otown are keeping you in their thoughts and prayers....pay no mind to those without a warm, loving heart like you and your momma. Those who don't care, don't matter. <3 <3
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We were lucky that when Quincy passed, he passed at home so we could smell that he was gone. It's super hard when your loved one leaves the house and never comes home again.
ReplyDeleteYou all take your time and grieve at your own pace. Give your mom kisses and tell her that our mom completely understands. Some humans just don't get it. Don't let them make you feel bad for grieving. Feel sorry for them that they will never know the depths of love that a pet can bring to your life. No one should ever feel bad that they loved so deeply.
we are here for you, we understand. it must be so hard to see her things around the house. You have friends here in the blogging community who will never shun you for crying. This song says it all when it comes to our pug community.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJYXItns2ik
by the way... the above comment is from Winston Wilbur. I was signed in under myself.
ReplyDeleteWe are still thinking about you! Hope you are having a better day!
ReplyDeleteWe are ALWAYS here for you!
ReplyDeleteJust take your time, the words will come...
Hugs,
Lily Belle & Muffin
OH Stella, I sit here with momma and we cry, we cry for your missing friend, your momma and Trud, we are sorry we weren't there when it happened, we have just been so busy. Poor trud she just, she just will be so missed. Your hearts must be broken, i wish i could come and play with you Stella, make you happy again, I know my momma wishes she could be there for your momma too.
ReplyDeleteOH Stella, I sit here with momma and we cry, we cry for your missing friend, your momma and Trud, we are sorry we weren't there when it happened, we have just been so busy. Poor trud she just, she just will be so missed. Your hearts must be broken, i wish i could come and play with you Stella, make you happy again, I know my momma wishes she could be there for your momma too.
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